Olivia’s journal

THE EARLIER CHAPTERS · 2001–2015

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其实,她也算是我的女儿

This is part 2 of a piece I wrote back in 2009. Part 1 can be found here: Going Home for the Chinese New Year。 Since 2009, I have been calling Irene's mom 阿姨. We celebrated 阿姨's bi…

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Smile or Frown?

Read a blog post written by this guy whom I subscribe to on Xanga. He was lamenting how he had allowed a 'silent war' get between him and his close friend. I am reminded of my stup…

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Happy 10 Year Birthday Blog!

Unbelievable that the blog I started those years back when I was working nights at Singnet Helpdesk has now turned 10. This past 10 years have been incredible to me and this blog h…

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Sixth Sense

Ever since I was a child, I've had an acute sixth sense. I can't actually pinpoint how it feels, but I know instinctively when something is going wrong. It feels like a creeping se…

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3 Years Ago Today

3 years ago today, I was at the lowest point of my life. Ironically, 3 years ago today, my Godson Jayden was born. I thank God I survived the darkest times in my life to bounce bac…

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Ideas

Everything starts with an idea. A tiny spark that ignites the passion of a person or persons. These people are the ones who ensure that the idea becomes reality. I like to think I'…

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Building Blocks

My city of dreams is built upon the foundation of my beliefs. I believe in myself. I know I am capable of building the city of my dreams. The path ahead looks dark, but a light wil…

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Late Night Musings

In the past year I've abandoned quite a few half written blog posts. Somehow, I set out writing them, but never get to finish. One was about Sayoni Summer Camp '09 and the AWARE sa…

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Reacher vs Settler

Watched a recent episode of "How I Met Your Mother" and they were exploring the concept of "Reacher" vs "Settler". The basic premise of it is that in every relationship, there is s…

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The Birthday UnWishlist

So everyone's been asking where is my wishlist for this year. I finally decided to sit down and work on it for real, seeing as how my party is set for this Saturday. The Big 3-0 Wi…

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Aviva Ironman 70.3 Singapore

Last Sunday I participated in my very first triathlon. While it was only a team event for me as I was a competitor for my company, the experience has motivated me to the point wher…

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How do you justify Violence?

I'm not really sure. IN a world where women are constantly under threat by men, I find it painful to see the scars borne bravely by this man child. Barely 21, already jaded and sui…

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Countdown to Aviva Ironman 70.3

Because Ms Teo complained to me today that I haven't been blogging, I decided I should get off my butt and make a quick post. There is 5 days left to the Aviva Ironman 70.3 event. …

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Going Home For Chinese New Year

***This blog was first written for the Sayoni blog and is a cross post This Chinese New Year was an interesting experience for me and my girlfriend. Having dated for close to a yea…

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Valentine's Day at Home

After such an eventful week, we decided to spend Valentine's Day at home so that we could catch up with some housework and spend time at home quietly instead of trying to squeeze w…

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Chinese New Year Lo Hei & SteamBoat

Had the pleasure of hosting a group of Sayoni peeps for Lo Hei & Steamboat on Saturday. Was truly fun to see everyone get together and celebrate the new year. So many people turned…

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Post Birthday Celebrations Blog

This year, my birthday coincided with Chinese New Year, so once the birthday celebrations were done with, it was time for the CNY celebrations to start. That explains why I haven't…

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I Had The Awesomest Birthday Ever!

I had the best time ever! Will blog more about what happened and also upload photos later on... but just a note to everyone who contributed in any way or fashion in making this bir…

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Another MEME - Guilty or Not

Got this off my cousin's note on Facebook Start with 100% and subtract 1% for everything that you've done. Then repost as your __% innocent. [ ]01. Smoked [ ]02. Drank alcohol [ ]0…

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